Sunday, April 10, 2016

When he's just not that into you...

You know how it is...You overanalyze everything. Because you want it to be there SOOOO bad. So anything he says and does is scrutinized to the max.

And really, the simple thing to do rather than worry and stress...is to just realize he is just not THAT into you.

Seriously, ladies, if you are overanalyzing, if you are wondering...let me be clear, boys will let you know the are into you. They will not play games.

It's dumb. And we all know someone who's man turned out to be awesome but they tiptoed around each other for 3 years before they committed. Or a friend who stuck it out playing they games an now they are blissfully married!

Well congrats to them. For the rest of us-we need to stop holding out and holding ourselves back. Stop thinking. Stop overanalyzing. Just stop.

And it sucks. But we are all adults and guess what! Not every two people are going to be a match for each other! and that is ok!!!

Accepting it is ultra hard though. So I get it. I mean, it's exactly what I am in the middle of right now. So let's all just pause for a moment and mourn the relationship that didn't work.

And let's move forward to the next!